Mysterious Popularity

by Raven Glomus

Okay, here’s a mystery. I’ve been posting on Facebook daily for over a year. Part of what we try to do is to reach as many people as we can. I’ve had posts where we had less than 70 people reached and posts where I was able to reach over 500. When I posted about Ira at Acorn winning an award, we got well over a thousand views–but Ira is amazing anyway.

Recently I was desperate for a Facebook post and thought of a question to ask. It was a decent question but not particularly interesting–I was really more interested in comments that I was expecting than the question itself. By early the next morning we had gotten a couple of comments–but for some reason, over 600 views. By now it’s gone up to six comments (one of which was from me), which really isn’t a lot of comments, but for some bizarre reason, it now has over six thousand views! I didn’t think that the question was worth it and it doesn’t seem to have anything to do with the comments, so I am frankly mystified. I really don’t understand Facebook anyway, but this really makes me feel like it doesn’t make any sense.

I will share the post and comments with you. Maybe someone out there understands better how Facebook works.

Here’s the original post. Note the numbers of People Reached and Engagements, vs Likes and Comments and Shares.

The comments were interesting and here they are below. It’s just that I don’t think that they are 65 hundred views interesting.

Mysterious Popularity

2020 is gone!

by Raven Glomus

I probably don’t need to say it, but I’m so glad that the year 2020 is over. Many horrible things happened that affected everyone–and affected the communes and the communal movement. I have a feeling that the changes from 2020 will affect the communes for years to come.

Maybe our need to just let the year go is why, when I posted a question on Facebook about what we could learn from 2020, no one responded with any answers.

Notice that it reached 191 people and 11 folks liked (etc) it but there were no comments.

Have we learned anything from the year? As much as we would like to forget that 2020 ever happened, I really hope that we could learn something from the year. As I said, I think the communes will feel the effects of the year for many years hence. Maybe we will be able to think about what we have learned when we have more distance from the year.

2020 is gone!

My Hopes for 2021

by Raven Glomus

Welcome to 2021!  The year 2020 is officially over.  One of my commune mates pointed out that nothing really changes as the calendar year rolls over, but there’s a lot of symbolism, especially this past year when so many (mostly not good things) happened all at once.

I will try to focus on commune related things in listing my hopes, but the coronavirus has had a major impact on the communes, and will need to be dealt with.  My first and biggest hope for this year is that, with folks getting vaccinated, we may be able to move somewhat beyond having to deal with the repercussions of the pandemic.  In terms of this happening, I’ve heard everything from late spring, to the summer, to sometime in the fall.  This will mean a lot for the communes.

The only good thing out of all this is that I think that the pandemic has increased interest in communal living.  It’s also made it hard to join communities.  So when some of the pandemic restrictions are lifted, I am very hopeful that many of the communes, which are at low populations now, will be able to bring in some good folks and increase their membership.

I also hope that this encourages some folks to decide to actually create communities.  There’s certainly enough interest in it–maybe with restrictions being lifted, some folks will decide to just do it.  I know that I am often discouraging of people simply starting communities, but if someone is really willing to begin the work (and a lot of this work is outlined on the blog) and reaches out and knows others who are also interested–and especially if they have some communal living experience, goodness knows we need more communes.  And I believe that if 90% of new communes fail, and we want to get at least ten new communes up and running, we’re going to need to start a hundred communes to get there, so I am actually in favor of folks starting communes, particularly if they are willing to do the research and networking they will need to do.

A big, pandemic related, hope for this year is that if the restrictions can be eased on time, there can be the usual August gatherings at Twin Oaks this summer.  I have never been to the Queer Gathering and I was planning to go last year but TO canceled all three gatherings.  My hope for this summer is that the Queer Gathering and the Women’s Gathering and the Communities Conference can all happen again.  I mentioned networking earlier and these are all great networking events.  If they happen (I hope, I hope, I hope they do) I would strongly encourage anyone interested in communal living to attend at least the Communities Conference, and if you identify as queer, the Queer Gathering, and if you identify as a woman, the Women’s Gathering.

Another hope for this year is that the communes continue to look at and figure out how to embrace racial justice, whether that’s by figuring out how to become more diverse or by figuring out how to support communities of color.  For horrible reasons, there was a large upswelling of interest in this over the course of 2020.  My hope is that this wasn’t another political phase but the beginning of some sustained work in all of our communities.

And my final hope for this new year is that folks find fun in all of this.  A lot of 2020 was grim and we have a lot of work to do, building back community membership, creating new communities, and continuing to work on racism (and classism and sexism and homophobia and transphobia and creating access for people with disabilities and…) and that we find a way to be joyful and even playful in all this because we will never attract anyone if we are all too damn serious.

What are your hopes for 2021?

My Hopes for 2021

Desires in the Pandemic

I (Raven) was curious how the pandemic was influencing people in terms of community, so I asked this question on Facebook:

As you can see, we only got three folks to comment, but I thought that the comments were sweet and on target.

I know that inquiries about community have gone up during the pandemic–we’ve gotten a bunch at Glomus–but we also are more reluctant to take on folks, especially short term folks, given all the precautions we need to take to take on someone.

Even now, in November, the pandemic is raging. Be safe out there.

Desires in the Pandemic

Low Ebb for the Communes

by Raven Glomus

The Federation of Egalitarian Communities (otherwise known as the FEC) is a network that tries to keep the communes connected with each other.  We have a once a month call where the delegates from various communes talk with each other.  Last month, on the call, someone joked that the FEC currently was five folks, the same five folks (representing four communities) that had been on the call for several months.  (Fortunately, this month, we had six folks on the call, including someone from a west coast community that hadn’t been on the call in several months.)

We generally have an assembly for the FEC every year (although, due to the pandemic, it may not happen this year).  I was looking at the essay I wrote for the assembly that was held in December, 2018 ( published in January, 2019 ).  I am struck by the number of attending communities that are now no longer with the FEC.  Part of it was the demise of the three urban communes that were part of the FEC.  But while the urban communes spectacularly fell apart, it feels like there are many rural communes that are just fading away.  

I think that Oran Mor, where the assembly was held, is now down to one member and her family.  Sadder to me is that Sandhill, which had been an income sharing community since 1974 and was one of the founding members of the FEC, is also down to two families and my understanding is that they are no longer income sharing.  Ionia, in Alaska, is still around, but they no longer seem interested in the FEC.  There are a few other rural communes that are still ongoing but, since they are in sparse to no contact with the FEC, it’s hard to tell what condition they are in.

The pandemic, of course, figures into this, but so does the regular boom and bust cycle of commune building.  It seems like 2018 was the end of a boom cycle and we seem to be in a bust cycle now–with the pandemic on top of that.  Twin Oaks, the biggest and longest running of the secular communes, is at their lowest membership in many years and, with the pandemic, they aren’t able to bring in a lot of new members.

Still, the term “low ebb” comes from a discussion about the tides, and describes the point where things are farthest out.  What happens next is that the tide begins coming back in.  Similarly, I have chosen to use low ebb in the title just because I think things will begin changing soon.  

In spite of how it feels, the pandemic won’t last forever.  The 2018 Assembly was not a happy occasion.  Things were very difficult at both East Wind and Acorn Community.  A year later, both East Wind and Acorn were on the upswing, while it was Twin Oaks that was having difficulties–and just before the pandemic hit, they started getting some new folks in.  Here at Glomus Commune (formerly East Brook) we are having a very good year this year in spite of the pandemic.  We have four income sharing members (the FEC now requires a community to have five in order to be a full member community) and I think that we might well have six income sharing members by the end of the year.

Finally, I think that in the long run, the pandemic may well benefit the communes.  This seems true economically: Acorn’s seed business is booming and I also think that some of Twin Oaks and East Wind’s businesses have actually done better because of panic buying.  More importantly, the FIC (Foundation for Intentional Community–the larger communities organization) reported a “sharp uptick” in searches for communities following the onset of the pandemic.  People have been realizing the benefits of communal living and I would not be surprised if membership in the communes grows as the pandemic ebbs, and I also think people who have been thinking of starting a commune or community may well decide to just do it once they can.

I would like us to find a way of moving beyond the boom and bust scenario and figure out how to stabilize the communes, but for now, I think that it’s important to build and maintain what we have and look hopefully at the future.

Low Ebb for the Communes

Dealing with the Pandemic at East Wind

East Wind is the most isolated of the big communes and, in many ways, the most individualistic. The level of response there was different, in some ways, to the Louisa communes. Some folks refused to take the pandemic seriously. On the other hand, they too cancelled their visitor groups and discouraged visitors in general.

Boone Wheeler published these ironic pictures of “Social Distancing” at East Wind:

The official East Wind site, on the other hand, doesn’t even mention the pandemic and the one post from the beginning of April was simply captioned, “Preppin the beds”:

My intro on the Commune Life Facebook page was: “It’s spring and, coronavirus or not, life goes on at East Wind”

My understanding is that East Wind *might* have a visitor period in July. They definitely don’t have one for June.

And Twin Oaks is saying that August is the “earliest” that they might have visitor periods.

If you are interested in visiting either East Wind or Twin Oaks, I would check in with them regularly. With the pandemic, everything is still up in the air in all the communes.

Dealing with the Pandemic at East Wind

The Pandemic in the other Louisa Communities

The last two days we have been looking at the response of Twin Oaks to the pandemic. There are actually six communities in Louisa county (Twin Oaks, Acorn, Living Energy Farm, Mimosa, Cambia, and Little Flower–which is a Catholic Worker community). Today I will look at how Acorn and some of the other FEC communities dealt with the challenges of the coronavirus.

Acorn went into rather drastic quarantine early–one of their founders is still living there and dealing with cancer, so to protect her, they took rigorous measures. Acorn, being Acorn, didn’t document this. Instead, they looked at the effect that COVID-19 had on their business, Southern Exposure Seed Exchange. Basically, when people realized that we were moving into a pandemic, everyone wanted to buy seeds.

Here’s how it happened. It starts with this note on a seed order:

Theresa pointed out:

The comments to this point, especially from Rejoice, further elaborated.

Southern Exposure was forced to put up this notice:

And, in the midst of this, Acorn celebrated Land Day (their annual holiday to commemorate when they were actually able to move onto the land). There was the usual big bonfire. But this year the celebration was a bit different.

Theresa’s note:

And then another invoice from SESE:

The person who was most in the midst of this is Rejoice, a former Acorn member now living at Mimosa, who everyone trusts, and thus became the courier between the communes as well as carefully bringing things back and forth to and from the outside world. To do this job, Rejoice had to resort to extreme measures:

SESE continued doing a brisk business and began putting out information about their business, both before and during the pandemic. The article is linked here.

The start of it says: “As most of you probably know, we’ve been inundated with orders this last month. We’re thrilled that folks are looking to our seeds during this challenging time but we’ve also had trouble keeping up. We’ve had to suspend taking new orders several times now while working to get seeds packed and shipped. We thought this would be an appropriate time to take a look behind the scenes at Southern Exposure.”

Then they posted an article on Seed Saving for all those folks that suddenly realized how important seeds were.

Commune Life also dove into this intercommunal attempt to teach seed saving during the pandemic.

The survey is still online if you want to take it.

Tomorrow, the non response from East Wind.

The Pandemic in the other Louisa Communities

Twin Oaks and the Pandemic, Part Two

With everything going on, the response from Twin Oaks changed as the pandemic progressed.

New signs went up. From what I wrote in early April: “Twin Oaks is still trying (like all of us) to come to grips with this new reality.

“In their newest post, they write: ‘THAT PANDEMIC. In many ways too, our focus has shifted to trying to keep C19 out of our community, and to planning how to handle it if and when it gets in.’ “

And, “Even in the midst of a pandemic, new life is born. Twin Oaks just got an addition to their population:”

And then there was Karaoke. From the TO FB page: “PANDEMIC KARAOKE. Here’s the very funny playlist from this week’s karaoke, as suggested by Mala. Best to keep laughing in hard times.”

The pandemic has even changed the meeting (or non-meeting) culture at Twin Oaks. What I wrote: “How do you keep a large community going during a pandemic? Twin Oaks is holding regular outdoor meetings where they talk about how they are going to manage things–outdoors so that folks who are concerned about social distancing can attend. Here’s a bit more about their weekly ‘COVID conferences’:

Meanwhile, other communities had other responses. Tomorrow, the responses from Acorn and the other Louisa communities.

Twin Oaks and the Pandemic, Part Two

Twin Oaks and the Pandemic, Part One

So, I am now sharing Facebook posts from mid-March, which is just when the enormity of the COVID-19 pandemic began to hit us. This post will document the early evolution of the responses from Twin Oaks. Tomorrow, I will continue with some later responses from Twin Oaks, and I will further post on responses from Acorn and East Wind.

Here’s what I (Raven) wrote on Facebook: “Here’s the beginning of looking at the evolution of Twin Oaks’ response to the coronavirus. This is an changing situation and these posts represent their early responses:”

And here is the first Facebook post from Twin Oaks:

But they were able to deal with the situation with some humor. “In the midst of a pandemic, why not hold a party? There are ways to do it responsibly:”

This was the next step in Twin Oaks’ responses:

“CORONAVIRUS QUARANTINE. Due to concerns around the spread of COVID-19 coronoavirus, we have cancelled the March and April Visitor Periods, and have cancelled Saturday tours for the foreseeable future.

“We are currently scheduling for May and beyond but that may change depending how everything unfolds. We will be looking for new members at that time, so if you are interested please do schedule a Three-Week Visitor Period for the summer or later.”

Also check out the message on their web page:

Then, “This is the new face of Twin Oaks:
QUARANTINE! Please leave…”

The comments that we (Commune Life) got to this post were telling:

Mac then elaborated:

I probably don’t need to add, but never show up unannounced to a commune, and that goes triple if there is a pandemic going on.

Tomorrow, more responses from Twin Oaks, as the pandemic grew.

Twin Oaks and the Pandemic, Part One