Closeness vs Space

by Raven Glomus

Every so often, for a Facebook post (because we are still on Facebook, every day), I ask a question. Sometimes, the question gets lots of views and lots of comments; sometimes there are very few views and very few comments. Of course, I try for the former and often try to figure out what went wrong when I get the latter.

And sometimes we get a decent number of views but few comments. I honestly don’t know why. Maybe it seemed intriguing at first glance, but not worth putting comments on. I really don’t know.

Here’s one that reached 252 people and got two comments–one of which was from us. I thought that it was a good question but apparently it didn’t provoke folks enough to comment–other than Dan Parelius. Here’s what I put on Facebook:

Is that such a confusing question? Here is the only real comment, plus Theresa’s response.

It’s true. We do want to understand better what people are looking for in community. I guess that sometimes they don’t want to tell us.

Closeness vs Space

One thought on “Closeness vs Space

  1. J's avatar J says:

    Hi,

    Just stumbled on yourblog via a websearch ( ecosia.org ).

    I would add that “Reached” simply means “it appeared in a person’s news feed,”
    i.e.
    _not_ that they necessarily paused to read it.

    Another possibility:
    We don’t alwaysknow the answer right away,
    Or are still struggling to figure it out
    (!)

    Thank you for this.
    It is something I don’t always know.
    Sometimes I think I want space,
    but it turns out I unexpectedly experience a certain quality of connection,
    and then feel a lot better
    (I have struggled w mental health since childhood; now 36).

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