by Raven Glomus
Communal living is important.
It’s what this blog is all about and it is how, I believe, we are meant to live. At the same time, many people find communal living hard and new communities fail at a rapid rate.
On Facebook I started exploring this paradox over several posts. In this one I decided to look at why, if we are tribal animals, communal living doesn’t come naturally.


Yes, I got thirty-one responses (actually, a few of the responses were mine, responding to other comments). Here are a lot of them, beginning with a quick response from Nyle Alantin, followed by a two part comment from Lucy Perry, which elicited a much longer comment from Allen Butcher.




Then there was a back and forth between Zamin Danty and me:



Then Katya Slepoy stepped in, eliciting reponses from Theresa, me, Allen, Rejoice, and Dina Ciccarone.








Then Allen wrote an extremely long comment that got a response from Delaney Calyx which elicited two more comments from Allen:






Finally, another commenter, Mary Hall stepped in and started a back and forth with me and Allen.





One thing I think is overlooked with tribal communities is the nomadic/migrant nature of the human as animal. In order to truly function naturally, we keep moving. With our whole tribe.
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[…] Lately I have been reading a lot about what has been called “evolutionary biology” or “evolutionary psychology”. I just finished (at least much of) Trust and Reciprocity, a book edited by Elinor Ostrom and James Walker, and I’m currently reading Sapien: A Brief History of Humankind by Yuval Noah Harari and Our Inner Ape by Frans de Waal (a primatologist who also had a chapter in Trust and Reciprocity). All this has gotten me thinking once again about how humans evolved to live tribally and why we don’t anymore. […]
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